Holy Wow,
That's really all i've got to say. I really need to start getting on here and blogging more often. So where do i begin. So for those of you who don't know on the 4th of July I got engaged to the love of my life Sarah Jane Davis. and has it been a wild ride ever since. Let me tell you dating and being engaged are two completely different world's. Growing closer getting to know each other even more. Falling deeper and deeper in love each and every day. While simultaneously finding those little quirks about each other that really drive you crazy.
It's been a entirely new experience and it's nothing like i thought it would be. Being in the situation where you know the woman in your arms is the one that God has said is going to be yours forever. It's awesome, it's humbling, it's not what i ever would have expected. Trying to learn the way the other one ticks. Trying to figure out what her "love language" is. (speaking of i should probably pull that book off my shelf and read it again) This is working together like i have never tried to do it before, and i love it :-) Do I have my moments of being completely stressed out and not knowing what to do? Definitely, but part of it is learning how to work threw it.
I have definitely learned quickly that sometimes its better to just shut up and let things calm down before you talk about it(even when i'm right) Because if you try when your minds not right then you are going to have a screaming match on your hands. Especially when the love of my life is just as stubborn and bull headed as I am. I have learned that although the solution to the problem may be plain as day to me. That she doesn't think the way i do and she has to take time to figure it out, and then we're probably still not going to come up with the same solution. COMPROMISE, COMPROMISE, COMPROMISE. We have to work together toward our end goal, and if we don't work together then it's not going to work.
It's hard work but it's so worth it.
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